I help sophisticated women navigate dating with confidence, authenticity, and joy - because your best love story is still ahead of you.
From divorced 18 years to happily married 15+ years
"There is not a place - it's a journey"
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After being divorced for 18 years and raising two beautiful daughters, when it came to dating again, I didn't know where to start. On numerous occasions I was told by well-meaning, sympathetic friends or family members to "Get out There."
But where is "There"? A group of friends and I were discussing this subject when one of my friends responded, "Tell me where 'There' is and I'll buy a ticket. I'll catch a plane. I'll even walk There and arrive early." We all laughed but each one of us got her point.
In the process of Finding "There" I discovered "There" is not a place. It is a journey. I discovered the path to the loving fulfilling relationship I desired. Today, I am happily married to my best friend and the love of my life.
I had more fun dating in my middle adult life than I ever did in my twenties! I believe we all are created for love and I am passionate about helping my clients discover their own unique path to Finding There.
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Real transformations from women who found their path to love
"I love how Vernell is a true cheerleader. She is always very enthusiastic and encouraging. I can really feel how passionate she is about helping women. I love that she shares her story, as it's very inspiring and gives me hope that I might find the one."
A.G. - age 45
"The mindfulness tools changed everything! I approached dating without anxiety for the first time in years. Thank you Vernell for giving me back my joy!!"
J.L. - age 51
"Vernell gave me the tools to be my authentic self. I'm no longer trying to be who I think men want - and it's working beautifully :-)"
S.A. - age 56
Ready to start your journey to love? I'm here to support you every step of the way.